The way in which two or more people or things are connected, or the state of being connected, is Relationship. A healthy relationship needs certain aspects to be fulfilled because then only the bonding becomes more and more strong. These are honesty, positivity, acceptance, acknowledgment, communication and yes, of course, the reinforcements. All components are equally important for the sake of a healthy relation. But reinforcement has grabbed a bit edge over all the other competitors.
We could have so many ways to reinforce our relationship but the first and foremost is Gifting. Gifts play a significant role in a relationship and are an integral part of a relationship. Gifts are the building blocks of a relationship. Gifts show your heart and your feelings and are offered as a reflection of the care and appreciation you feel for your partner. As by gifts, we can easily enter directly into the heart of our partner. And remember gifts are the most impressive way to liquidate all the wrongs, misunderstandings, jealousy, and mess, adulterated in your relationship. If you surprise them by your gift, it will be best for them because it displays the care, possessiveness, dedication & consciousness about your partner.
That's why the selection of a gift is an art because it has two different sides of thinking, one, it should fulfill the needs or expectations, and second, it represents ourselves to our partner. Gifts could be tangible or not, depending on the situation and occasion. Moreover, the intangible gifts are so valuable to express in words. They just carry happiness and ultimate satisfaction.
Like a proven proverb ‘A picture is worth a thousand words', a gift is worth a million of explanations that could go wrong from the very beginning. Some research resultant that gifts has tremendous power to modify the level of relationship. Especially in the transitional phase of the relationship, gifts could play a vital role to escape the mishappenings. Gifts could provide you a second chance, to share some quality time with each other, and so the misunderstandings and misconceptions could be sorted out and the relationship will be enhanced with new oxygen.
If your gift lets your partner recall a sweet memory, I can bet you won the heart, at that point of time only. And by winning your partner's heart, you will become the king/queen in your relationship. A perfect relationship is where we don't say even a single word and our partner understands what we want, and this could really be happen, only and only, by gifts.
A common phenomenon that people have a tendency to remember special gifts because gifts make us feel special and loved. On the occasions, gifts become very special and memorable and recalled many times in the whole lifespan. And at every recall, we travel to that era when we got our special gift, which incredibly strengthens our bonding, and proportionally strengthen our relationship.
Finally, we could say if love is the language for a relationship, gifts are the words of this wonderful language.
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